Being and
non-being, appearance and emptiness, the moving and the abiding,
the substantial and insubstantial embracing the whole of time
and space, never departs from the sky-like original nature.
In referring
to Ultimate Reality (dharmata) as the sky-like original nature,
understand that to be sky-like is to have no intrinsic nature at
all. It is completely beyond objectification and beyond all
concepts such as "is" or "is not;" both "is" or "is not" or
something other that "is" or "is not." Between "sky," "mind" and
"Ultimate Reality" no distinction should be made. All these
terms should be taken as mere designations and concepts.
Everything is one's own mind. Not so much as an atom exists
outside of mind. Whoever realizes that from the very beginning
there has been nothing other than mind, has acquired the
realization of all the Buddhas of the three times.
Q: What effect does realizing one's true nature have on
one’s relationships? Isn’t it difficult to relate to someone who
is caught up in the ego when you are free of that?
A: It’s much more difficult for two egos to relate. The
egoic experience is one of insecurity, lack, and fear. Believing
yourself to be an individual ego, your relationships are
fundamentally insecure, lacking and fearful. Knowing yourself as
pure awareness and not a separate ego, your relationship with
everyone and everything changes.
Q: But isn’t it frustrating to interact with others who
are completely caught up in their ego? Don’t you feel like
you’re being pulled into egoic interactions and confrontations?
A: This realization reveals the fact that everything is
happening, and that there is no one who is doing anything. Even
the ego, which is the personal sense of doer-ship, is just
happening. Does the ego create the ego? Seeing that there is no
one in control here in me, it is also seen that there is no one
in control in the other. Who is confronting whom? All
interactions and confrontations are the Source interacting with
and confronting itself. Along with this is a sense of acceptance
of whatever is happening. There is no one here accepting things,
but there is a sense of acceptance. Confrontational interactions
arise and fall: awareness remains pure, peaceful, and
unaffected.
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